i’ve had some relational static lately, some ill feelings, some impatience. habitually i have looked critically at myself wondering what i’ve done wrong, what i need to learn to put up with, why i shouldn’t have those uncomfortable feelings.
what i’m thankful for at this moment is that i’m learning to listen to that static nonjudgementally, and to let it inform me of what i need in my relationships. i’m letting the static teach me that something is wrong and that i’m not getting what i need. most importantly, i’m learning to voice those needs. i don’t have to get my way, but i do need to speak my truth and ask for what i want. and that’s how i will learn to trust and respect myself in relationships!